A Little Bit About Me
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I would say I'm very loving, empathetic, trustworthy, non judgemental and blonde at times.
I work in Social Care supporting young people of different backgrounds, disabilities, behavioural difficulties, trauma from their life situations, substance abuse, mental health, supported accommodation and so on. I enjoy supporting the elderly which i do too and provide care towards the end of life. I love being able to support and make a positive impact on people's lives. I'm also a qualified dental nurse and mental health peer support worker.
My deen is important to me. I try my best to pray my salaah everyday, Inshallah I will reach to pray 5x everyday. I keep all my fasts and have done since I was 10 and also been to Umrah Alhamdulillah. I would love to perform Hajj with my husband Inshallah.
I would say I have traditional values with a modern outlook on life with a good balance between eastern/western culture, with my main focus on being a good person and respecting others.
Most people judge me on my hair as it's been 12 years now. Not a time goes by when I'm out with my mum and approached by people complimenting me on my hair colour whilst my mum goes here we go again!
My work keeps me busy but I enjoy going to the gym atleast 5 times a week, a gym buddy would be amazing as I spend a lot of time training. I am a size 10 which I'm happy with as I'm 5ft9.
I also enjoy cooking but I have to say I'm not a big meat eater any more only occasionally. I wouldn't class myself as a vegetarian but I do prefer it.
My flaws are that I'm far too trusting and giving to people, I go out of my way which impacts on myself as I tend to put others before myself. I'm definitely working on this.
I'm so appreciative and thank Allah everyday for all he's blessed me with even through the struggles, they are the biggest blessings in disguise.
He sent me 2 beautiful cats that are such a blessing to me. Alhamdulillah
I'm not here to judge anyone, Allah sees and knows all, we will answer to him at the end of the day.
I'm there to help through any mistakes, worries, life's issues, stress anything that impacts on you negativity I'm you're person always including man flu but I'll make fun and snapchat you sorry not sorry.
I'm stubborn because I'm always right (i'm only a little stubborn ha ha)
I'm open minded- My way might be or not be the right way but I acknowledge there can be growth from new possibilities and a different outlook on situations. I always strive on bettering myself. This takes acceptance and acknowledgement, also to put ones ego aside when an apology is needed. I have no issue with this it's a learning opportunity.
I feel marriage needs team work- you're now thinking about 2 people not 1 for the rest of your life. To remember you have the same goals and values in life and are not enemies your a team. life's too short to argue and have an ego.
Communication is key with you're partner, to have a conversation to hear both views and come to a compromise if needed for it to work as no one is perfect. I'd love to be able to grow and learn from my partner.
I enjoy questions about life, deep meaningful times.
I have 2 beautiful cats, they're such precious gifts sent to me.
I love partaking in new activities, going for walks, going to the beach, movies, axe throwing, theme parks etc socialising with friends and family especially my 2 youngest brothers when they come round to stay as i raised them both from birth. Going on holidays as I love experiencing different cultures and foods. Also having lazy days watching Netflix! Love sci-fi and action mostly. I am bit of a tom boy at times too. Oh I do have the biggest sweet tooth!
I don't know if look high maintenance or not but I'm really not believe it or not
Lastly, I am often misjudged by my style and hair colour, which has been some sort of burgundy/purple/pink for 12 years now which will not change. I'm sorry but that doesn't make me a wild child. I don't think my resting B face helps, I'm actually a softie at heart.
Yes I'm 37 but I don't like it!
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What I Am Looking For
Firstly a man who has Deen and practicing or have it in their heart to grow in this aspect which we can improve together in Inshallah (extremely important) As I won't lie, I sometimes fall of track when life's making its rounds and this would help me greatly. Alhamdulillah for all things good and bad.
I'm requiring a respectful, commited stable, god fearing man with integrity and morals. A man who possesses emotional/mental maturity, has attentive communication skills, a protector in all aspects of being in a relationship by having physical, mental and emotional awareness.
A man who knows life/marriage isn't always perfect which will need continuing hard work and effort, to not just give up at the first signs of difficulty. (From both sides)
To be in tune with their own needs and to know when they require to look within themselves and take accountability and be better for your wife and children.
To be accomplished and a provider, to know what's required as their role in being a husband/father/son in law.
I think basic life skills is essential cooking, cleaning, tidying after yourself etc
This man should enhance my quality of life and not make it harder or lack in what I have already acheived and built for myself Allhamdulillah.
Also an ambitious educated man with future life/career goals.
I will happily stay single rather than settling for less than I deserve as i know you'll get more in return from me, I will not accept bare minimum efforts and decrease my quality of life.
I'll treat you as my king if you make me your queen.
My rock that I can depend on. A life partner and best friend Inshallah.
Inshallah we all find the partner we're searching for.
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